Our Brothers Married lyrics and meaning
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Meaning
This song can be understood as a wedding song about the new daughter-in-law. At the beginning, the joyful announcement is made that the brothers are marrying and will bring home a very beautiful bride: her braids reach her belt, the sun rises from her braids, and dew falls from her wreath. These images can be interpreted as praise of the bride's beauty.
The song then emphasizes the bride's rake, painted and given by the dieverelis, the husband's brother, and asks why she is standing and not raking. This question can be understood as the presentation of the new family's expectations.
At the end, the daughter-in-law answers that she does not grieve for the green meadow or the white clover, but for her young days and rue wreath. These words can be interpreted as the bride's mourning for lost maidenhood as she leaves her natal home. This is one possible meaning, but the motifs of the bride's beauty and lost youth are clear in the song.
Symbols
- Braids to the belt, sun from the braids
- Long braids reaching the belt and shining like the sun. They mark praise of the bride's beauty.
- Dew from the wreath
- Dew falling from the young woman's wreath. It marks maidenhood and purity.
- Rake given by the husband's brother
- The painted rake given by the dieverelis, the husband's brother. It marks new family ties.
- "I grieve for young days and the rue wreath"
- The bride's mourning for lost maidenhood. It marks the passage from maiden to daughter-in-law.
History
"Our Brothers Married" belongs to wedding songs about the young bride brought into the household. The opening, a joyful announcement that the brothers have married and brought home a very beautiful daughter-in-law, whose braids reach her belt, "the sun rises from her braids, dew falls from her wreath," is a traditional formula praising the bride's beauty, in which sun and dew connect the girl with light and purity.
The exact place and time of recording are not given on the page, so the song is discussed according to genre features. The second part, with the painted rake given by the dieverelis and the reproach "why are you standing, why are you not raking," introduces the expectations of the new family. The daughter-in-law's answer, that she does not grieve for the green meadow but for her young days and rue wreath, reveals the bride's mourning for lost maidenhood and her natal home, one of the most important motifs of wedding lyric.
Sources
- Lietuvių liaudies dainynas, t. 1–23, Vilnius 1980–2011 (LLTI)
- A. Juška. Lietuviškos svotbinės dainos, 2 t., Vilnius 1955
- Lietuvių liaudies dainų katalogas, 6 t., Vilnius 1972–1986
- Universal Lithuanian Encyclopedia: Lithuanian folk songs
- Universal Lithuanian Encyclopedia: wedding songs
- LLTI: Lithuanian Folk Songbook
Common questions
Our Brothers Married: what kind of song is this?
It is a wedding song about the young bride brought home: first her beauty is praised, then her grief for lost maidenhood is revealed.
What does "the sun rises from her braids, dew falls from her wreath" mean?
It is a formula praising the bride's beauty. Sun and dew connect the young woman with light and purity, while the wreath marks maidenhood.
Why does the bride grieve for "young days and the rue wreath"?
She does not grieve for the meadow, but for lost maidenhood and youth. The rue wreath is a sign of maidenhood left behind at marriage.
What does the rake given by the dieverelis mean?
Dieveris means the husband's brother. His gift of a rake and the reproach "why are you not raking" show the bride's entry into new family work and relationships.